(Music) (Music) In this post, I’m going to talk to you about if no contact will work if you’ve been in a short-term relationship that has recently ended. Take a second and click the subscribe button below so that you can be notified when I have more content that’s helpful to your situation and that includes breakups, marriage, relationship dynamics and attraction. So, a lot of my calls are from people who have been in what we would call short term relationships.
Hey guys! Today I want to talk about one of the questions that I get asked the most often, yet somehow have never actually answered and that is: how to date as a lady who also loves the ladies wether it’s how do I meet other queer women? or I’m into someone, how do I know they’re into me? or how do I let someone know I want to be more than just friends? and the list goes on and on and on I get stuff like this every single day. in this day and age where we have literally created an entire other world that lives in the palm of our hands, it only makes sense to utilize this new world and work it into our dating life as I’m sure many of you know, I have a lot of first hand experience with meeting queer people through the internet, wether they’re my best friends, or people I’ve dated I’ve met some of my favorite humans because of the internet, although I’m a huge advocate for using the internet for dating, I’ve actually never used a dating app, I think because I was in a relationship when dating apps kind of showed up I never really got the chance, but thanks to OkCupid for sponsoring this post, today I’m giving it a little trial. little disclaimer, yes, I am in a relationship I have made all of my settings on the dating app for taken, and just looking for friends, but I thought it would be a really fun experience for us to kind of go through some of the questions, so you guys can get to know me a little bit more and make you think about how you would answer these questions. I really love OkCupid as a dating app because it’s not so superficial we are such a quick pace society and we’re so efficient that we make decisions at the drop of a hat. It’s you see someone yes, no, swipe whatever and it’s done.
(Milk and breads on the table?) (Jong Kook enters first) Why did you call me first… What’s with all of these breads and milk Are we having a blind date? I think we are having a blind date today! (Huh?) Oh yeah, right (Jae Seok wearing the 80s retro Ski fashion enters) Aren’t you going to go ski? I look like I have big shoulders, right?
That guy have some fats on his belly Why are you being like that… Nice to meet you! What do you think we are doing today? Right? (Ji Hyo with cute retro style enters) Ji Hyo! So pretty – Awesome style – Why are you so pretty today?
Gentlemens Game here. Today I’m gonna tell you a story about an amazing date I was on with someone who ended up being my girlfriend for a while. And Maybe you’ll pick up a few ideas of things YOU can start doing on your OWN dates.
So For the sake of this story, let’s call her Marie. I actually first met Marie outside a park in downtown New York. I don’t really remember what I first said to her to be honest.. probably something I noticed about her outfit. But I do remember her telling me she was on her way to dance class, and then agreed to give me her number to hang out sometime.
What if somebody messaged you on a dating app, asking: “I know we’ve never met but, how do you feel about dropping everything you’ve got going on this week to go on a crazy adventure together in 48 hours across the world?” See there’s two things Ammar does extremely well: getting strangers to go on crazy adventures and organizing dates. But so far the dates Amar has organized have always been for others so today it’s time for that to change While on Bumble a few months ago I found the perfect opportunity to ask a stranger to go on the most spontaneous adventure of their lives I matched with a girl on Bumble And I had this pretty crazy, idea where I would, ask her to go on a trip across the world on a first date -On what? -Like on a first date. I’ve like organized Dates for you guys and I’ve been like third wheeling so f****** hard but I feel like now its my f****** time to go on an epic date. -YES! *Indistinct yells of excitement* I left her my number on Bumble and she texted me so, now I’m at the point, where I’m about to go into stage two of my ask and ask her to meet up I’m gonna ask her what I’m gonna ask you, on camera. -What’s her name? -Her name is Talli This is so weird This is the weirdest way to meet with someone -Have you ever met this person? -I promise It is.. It is intense It’s been 5 minutes and no response It’s always the ???
– I haven’t had sex for a really long time. (laughs) Sex isn’t really a bid deal for me, and- (buzzing) – Not a big deal. – I understand. (laughing) – [Narrator] Welcome to The Button, a speed dating show. When the button lights up red, either player may press it and swap out their date for a new person. If two people can last on a date for 10 minutes, they win an all expenses paid second date. – [Button] Welcome to The Button. – [Jessi] Hello. – [Caden] What’s you’re name? – Jessi. – Jessi, I’m Caden. – [Jessi] Hi, Caden. – [Button] The date begins now. – All right. – Yeah. – Okay, cool. – How old are you? – I’m … (laughs) Why don’t you guess? – [Button] Jessi, you seem nervous. – Well yeah. (laughing) I don’t know, ’cause well, whose supposed to answer that? Or like what? (laughs) There’s so much going on. – [Button] When was the last time you were both in a serious relationship? – Go ahead. (laughs) – Seven or eight months ago now, how about you? – Oh, that’s a long time ago, probably 2013. So it’s been hard to find someone with staying power. (buzzing) – No offense.
Have you ever seen that clip of where Madonna is in a really hot room and she’s being interviewed and she’s like sitting there going, “Someone get me a fan, now,” and the poor girl is really crapping herself, gives her her script to fan herself. She’s like.. I love it.
I am Justin Myers, also known as The Guyliner, and I was an anonymous blogger for nearly seven years and now I am just a blogger. I’m sex and relationships columnist for GQ online, I was advice columnist for Gay Times for five years, I have a blog dissecting the Guardian Blind Date column, and I’m gonna give you five things that may help you survive your first date. My first tip for surviving a blind date is: do not to eat. Now, not for any of those reasons like you shouldn’t be seen eating in front of someone or you don’t want someone to think you’re greedy.
Do you have a girlfriend? No! Love life at the moment is the Sahara Desert… it’s dry 100% I believe in romance, I class myself as a little romantic if I could Okay so Cavan why have you got me here today? My friend Khalil he’s an absolutely awful dater He is known for forgetting people’s names that he’s on a date with No There has been a few occasions where it’s genuinely just a slip of the tongue or I have forgot, you can’t recover from that I’m in the doghouse he often tells stories about himself being drunk which, you know, uh I’m sick and tired of his dating life and I just feel like he needs some more advice on things Okay so Khalil you’ve been nominated by your mate Cavan as a bad date do you know why? Yes and no.
– Is it ever okay to date a person who is separated? – [Audience Member] Yes! – Okay, so can we have an emotional conversation and not a legal conversation? ‘Cause I’m in it. I’m completely in it right now. I filed for divorce.
I took some time for me. I took ownership of my heart back, slowly. I was actually that girl that thought, I’m never gonna date again. Never, ever, ever, ever, ever.
How and when to text a girl. That’s what we’re talking about today and it’s a very simple answer. If you get her number and you need to text her within 24 hours and I’m going to tell you why.
24 hours; that is all you have these days to be able to text a girl and get her to respond. Of course I don’t mean that to an extreme degree. Yeah of course you could text her a couple days later but the best opportunity you have is within the 24 hours that you first meet her because she is fresh on your mind. what happens is attraction starts to slowly die over time because if you get her number and then maybe six days later you decide to text her, she doesn’t have a fresh memory of who you are and the experience that you two had together when you first got her number. Now at Maya Beach famous for the Leonardo DiCaprio movie called The Beach. Now let me be very clear on this 24 hour rule.