Hey. It’s Clayton Olson. And in this post, I’m gonna talk about the importance of really getting in touch with your intention when you are dating and entering into relationship, so you can avoid heartbreak resentment and compromising yourself and ultimately destroying any foundation of respect that’s being built. And in order to communicate this idea clearly, I’m gonna read a question that I received from one of you, one of my viewers, that came from a woman we’re gonna call her Sandy to protect her identity.
Hey viewers, I’ve been in the dating coaching scene for over a decade now and there’s one thing I can tell you for sure – Certain nationalities definitely struggle more with dating than others. In fact you don’t need to take my word for it, OkCupid founder Christian Rudder lays the statics from his online dating webiste out in his new book Dataclysm – The truth is that certain nationalities are simply voted as less desirable than others. So that settles it then right? Evidently both men and women are racist when it comes to dating, and the data backs it up! Well, actually while the data is correct, it’s quite misleading.
Do you have a girlfriend? No! Love life at the moment is the Sahara Desert… it’s dry 100% I believe in romance, I class myself as a little romantic if I could Okay so Cavan why have you got me here today? My friend Khalil he’s an absolutely awful dater He is known for forgetting people’s names that he’s on a date with No There has been a few occasions where it’s genuinely just a slip of the tongue or I have forgot, you can’t recover from that I’m in the doghouse he often tells stories about himself being drunk which, you know, uh I’m sick and tired of his dating life and I just feel like he needs some more advice on things Okay so Khalil you’ve been nominated by your mate Cavan as a bad date do you know why? Yes and no.
(audience applauds) (laughs) – See, we talk about men, and men, as men, we know we bring a certain amount of problems to the relationship, but we’re not gonna sit here and blame everything that’s wrong in your relationship on the man, ’cause see, everything that’s wrong (audience applauds) ain’t our fault. See, all that little cackling, laughing, we’ve been hearing a minute ago, fellas? I’m fixin’ to shut that down. (audience laughs) I’m back with you now, dawg. (imitates dog barking) (men in audience imitate dogs barking) See, when it comes to putting that spark back in your relationship, a lot of you ladies are disappointed in your man, because you think the spark in your relationship is gone. Your love business in your bedroom ain’t what it used to be, and you think it’s ’cause he done slipped in his department, but no, no, see, let me straighten you out a little bit. (audience laughs) See, when it comes to being sexy, women, you have us beat hands down. There is no contest.